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Sexual Ethics Workshop & Programs - Sextegrity Workshop
Praise for the Sextegrity Workshop:
"Even with just an hour of Barb's time, the presentation helped me self-reflect on my life; and made me realize some changes I need to make in my sexual life. I'm thankful!"
- Llani Main, Upper Iowa University
"To have your own Sexual Ethic is by far the most important element you need in a strong relationship. Be willing to open up about talking Sextegrity with your significant other."
- Nathan Bauser, APCA Student Participant
"I really enjoyed talking about sex... When I say that I mean it was really cool learning things that I didn't know. You've made something that's really uncomfortable to most, comfortable. I really enjoyed this because i really don't have a lot of people that I can talk to. So that's a little hard for me to get information when the information I get is basically what girls learn out on the streets. But like I said, i really want to thank you for everything we as a group talked about!"
- Anita, Ottawa County
"Thank you for what you have done. It made some changes in my heart from what you have said and you were a great speaker! I really want you to keep speaking in your life. You were amazing."
- Heaven, Port Sheldon
"Thank you! It's been a lot of help. I will be safer now."
- Anonymous
" Barbara Lee facilitated a workshop on Healthy Relationships/Sexuality at our annual conference in May 2014. The workshop was well attended and participants enjoyed learning from her. Barbara has a way of presenting a sensitive topic that is both understandable and engaging. Some participants were able to hear for the first time that sexuality is normal and nothing to be ashamed about. We were pleased to have Barbara at our conference and strongly recommend her expertise."
- Kimberly Lilly, Independent Living Specialist, Disability Connection/West Michigan
"Barbara came and spoke about sexual ethics in the Lighthouse girls residential treatment program. Barbara created an atmosphere where the girls felt comfortable sharing their ideas and beliefs about sexuality and the messages we are often given. Through this open dialogue the girls were able to look at other perspectives and have some of their own thoughts challenged regarding sex. This is a topic that can be uncomfortable for many but Barbara established an environment where the girls were excited to share! Barbara shared her own story which many of the girls could relate to. Barbara's story helped the girls feel comfortable sharing their own story and some disclosed past experiences with staff after the session. These sessions were very empowering, exciting and meaningful! The girls created their own sexual ethics at the end that they took with them beyond the sessions. The girls and treatment staff are all very appreciative of Barbara and everything she taught and discussed with them."
- Megan Bezemek, Youth Specialist Ottawa County Juvenile Detention
"Even with just an hour of Barb's time, the presentation helped me self-reflect on my life; and made me realize some changes I need to make in my sexual life. I'm thankful!"
- Llani Main, Upper Iowa University
"To have your own Sexual Ethic is by far the most important element you need in a strong relationship. Be willing to open up about talking Sextegrity with your significant other."
- Nathan Bauser, APCA Student Participant
"I really enjoyed talking about sex... When I say that I mean it was really cool learning things that I didn't know. You've made something that's really uncomfortable to most, comfortable. I really enjoyed this because i really don't have a lot of people that I can talk to. So that's a little hard for me to get information when the information I get is basically what girls learn out on the streets. But like I said, i really want to thank you for everything we as a group talked about!"
- Anita, Ottawa County
"Thank you for what you have done. It made some changes in my heart from what you have said and you were a great speaker! I really want you to keep speaking in your life. You were amazing."
- Heaven, Port Sheldon
"Thank you! It's been a lot of help. I will be safer now."
- Anonymous
" Barbara Lee facilitated a workshop on Healthy Relationships/Sexuality at our annual conference in May 2014. The workshop was well attended and participants enjoyed learning from her. Barbara has a way of presenting a sensitive topic that is both understandable and engaging. Some participants were able to hear for the first time that sexuality is normal and nothing to be ashamed about. We were pleased to have Barbara at our conference and strongly recommend her expertise."
- Kimberly Lilly, Independent Living Specialist, Disability Connection/West Michigan
"Barbara came and spoke about sexual ethics in the Lighthouse girls residential treatment program. Barbara created an atmosphere where the girls felt comfortable sharing their ideas and beliefs about sexuality and the messages we are often given. Through this open dialogue the girls were able to look at other perspectives and have some of their own thoughts challenged regarding sex. This is a topic that can be uncomfortable for many but Barbara established an environment where the girls were excited to share! Barbara shared her own story which many of the girls could relate to. Barbara's story helped the girls feel comfortable sharing their own story and some disclosed past experiences with staff after the session. These sessions were very empowering, exciting and meaningful! The girls created their own sexual ethics at the end that they took with them beyond the sessions. The girls and treatment staff are all very appreciative of Barbara and everything she taught and discussed with them."
- Megan Bezemek, Youth Specialist Ottawa County Juvenile Detention
Sextegrity WorkshopBetween the teachings of “sex is sin” and “sex is sport” is a place where we can celebrate our sexuality while treating it with moral authority. This workshop explores the messages we receive and send both explicitly and implicitly about sex and sexuality. This workshop is tailored to specific groups, including:
· High School and College Students · Parents · Adults of all ages and marital status · Professional and College Athletes · Churches and Faith Communities · Public health forums · GLBT support groups · Book Clubs and Discussion Groups We are all sexual beings and we can all benefit from engaging in realistic conversation about how we will and will not express our sexuality in today’s society. |
Sexual Ethics ContentsThe Sexual Ethics Workshop is customized to meet the needs of the audience and the time frame provided.
Elements of the Workshop · Marriage Ethic vs. Sexual Ethic · Cultural Messages about Sex · Masculine and Feminine Energy · Unpacking Spiritual Violence · Exploitation and the Sex Industry · Drafting a Personal Sexual Ethic · How to Talk to Your Kids/Your Parents about Sex “Sexual Energy is the most powerful stimulus of all, a rich treasure of joy, happiness and passion. But it remains a virtue only to the degree that it is used with wisdom, compassion and understanding.” |
